Queer Youth Mental Health

The New Witchhunts

November 5, 2009 · 2 Comments

The Witchcraze, which peaked around 1600 in Europe, was an attempt, according to some, to consolidate Christian religious power by “conquering” the heathenism of the peasants.  As struggles for religious power often do, this one was waged on the backs of those considered the most threatening: unattached, especially older women.  Women were targeted in much greater numbers than were men. Most of them were older, widowed women, wise-women, and midwives. They were accused of “mischief making” — of souring milk or making men impotent.

Joan of Arc burned as a witch

The accusation of mischief making was only enough in the early years of the Witchcraze.  By about 1560, those in power had made it about sex.  Accused witches were said to be sexual slaves of Satan, participating in orgies and “perverse” sexual acts.  The Witchcraze was not just about consolidating power by terrorizing the poor and women, but by projecting the culture’s fear and loathing of sex onto the least powerful amongst them.  Neighbors and families turned in others in an attempt to rid their lives and towns of “evil.”  The more elaborate and heightened the fears about sex became, the greater the percentage of women amongst the accused, up to 80%.   Women were seen as the “weaker link” — that lured Adam in the garden.   As the culture shunned sexuality in an attempt to become more religious and more “pure”, witches became the holders of the “unnatural” — of taboo sexual acts. (From Servants of Satan: The Age of the Witchhunts by Joseph Klaits)

In Western culture today, the witch hunts go on.  They’re now in the form of terrorizing children about the “horrors” of homosexuality.  They’re in the form of “exorcising” gay demons from young men and women in often violent ceremonies.

Rev. Irene Monroe writes for The Bay Windows on the use of “Hell Houses” by evangelical Christians:

Hell houses” are today’s contemporary form of witch-hunting. Created in the late 1970’s by fundamentalist pastor Rev. Jerry Falwell, “hell houses” are religious alternatives to traditional haunted houses. They are tours given by evangelical churches across the country design to scare people away from sin. And one of those sins is homosexuality.

The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force issued a report in 2006 entitled “Homophobia at ‘Hell House‘”.  It describes scenes depicting young lesbians committing suicide and burning in hell, a gay man dying of AIDS after getting married with a demon at his side, laughing maniacally.  Not only do these scenes do uncountable harm to LGBTQ youth, but they misinform all youth and encourage further harassment toward youth for their real or perceived sexual orientation.  There is no question in my mind that witnessing violence and terrorizing images such as these would leave any youth with residual trauma.  The Hell Houses are about keeping youth and sexuality “in their place” just as the witch hunts of the 1400’s and 1500’s were about keeping women, paganism and sexuality in their places.

The witchhunts go on: it is still about anxiety about sex and gender, distortions and projections by a culture on it its most vulnerable.  They are about turning people against one another out of terror and fear of “going to hell.”  Now, instead of targeting women, the new “witches” are those who do not fit sexual and gender norms.  Instead of neighbors turning in neighbors, youth bully children at school who don’t fit gender norms.  This results in trauma, physical injuries and at times, death.  Some things don’t change.  Is it not time to stop terrorizing one another, and harming the most oppressed amongst us in a useless effort to export our own fears onto others?

Read more:  New York Times article from 2006 on Hell Houses

An episode from NPR’s This American Life on Hell Houses.

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Amazing Video: Just Say No to “That’s So Gay”

October 29, 2009 · 1 Comment

Inspiring message, awesome music by Will.i.am and a connection to the civil rights movement.  What else do you need? Students who are bullied because of their real or perceived sexual orientation are subject to harassment and violence to the point where they miss more school than most other students.  They experience depression, anxiety and traumatic reactions.  It is time to stop stop saying “That’s so gay,” even if you’re not talking about a person.

Colors by Will.i.am

Stand for life
Stand for true
Stand for somethin’
Don’t fall for nothin’

Stand for love
Stand for power
Stand for somethin’
Don’t fall for nothin’

Stand for me
Stand for you

Stand for somethin’
Don’t fall for nothin’

Don’t fall for nothin’
Don’t fall for nothin’

Stand for life
Stand for true
Stand for somethin’
Don’t fall for nothin’

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The National Youth Advocacy Coalition Introduces Online Training to Help LGBTQ Youth

October 28, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Here is their press release:

The National Youth Advocacy Coalition is pleased to announce the online Safe Spaces Training Module, which is designed to help organizations create safer spaces for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) youth. The self-guided training module has six parts, which run approximately 15 minutes each. The module contains a self-assessment for each participating organization; and upon completion of all six modules, agencies can receive free Safe Zone materials for their offices and youth spaces. The training module is free. Participants only need to download a worksheet and follow along with the video series at their own pace. NYAC is available to answer specific questions and can provide more individualized technical assistance around creating spaces for LGBTQ youth. To access the online training module, click here. Please direct all questions or concerns regarding the Safe Spaces Training Module to Jennie Beeson at 800.541.6922 ext 12 or via email at mailto:jennie@nyacyouth.org.

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Queer Youth Resource Guide

October 25, 2009 · 3 Comments

The Equal Youth Center, Kansas City’s Queer Activist Youth Center, has developed a great new resource guide for LGBTQ youth.  Although some of it is area-specific, it also has important and helpful information that LGBTQ youth in any area might find useful.  Download it directly here or go to the Youth Center’s Site.  Via GLBT and Allies blog.

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They’re coming out younger and younger

October 11, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Happy National Coming Out Day!

Keith Haring's "National Coming Out Day"

Keith Haring's "National Coming Out Day"

Today is the day that the LGBTQ community has designated as a day to be sure to tell someone else that you are not heterosexual.  Why?  Because research shows that people who know an LGBTQ person are much less likely to be homophobic and are much more likely to become open-minded about LGBTQ issues such as gay marriage, hate crime law and protection of LGBTQ youth in schools.

This is also a day, I’ve noticed that straight allies come out as allies.  As LGBTQ youth come out younger and younger, it is all the more important that there are strong allies to youth available to advocate for them, accept them and just plain understand them.  It matters not if the ally is straight or not.  It simply matters that there are many out there who are open about their willingness to stand up — sometimes at their own personal risk — for a young person.

I can attest that some of the strongest allies to the LGBTQ community that I know of are friends and family of LGBTQ people:  The mom of a young gay man who started a PFLAG chapter, the daughter of an out gay man, a sister who puts on programming for PFLAG, a niece of a transgender man who goes out of her way to speak up for transpeople, and a mom and dad who are now regulars at the Dignity USA conferences.  These people carry their ally-ship beyond their families.  These people are teachers, therapists, writers, doctors and retirees who come to the side of LGBTQ people on important issues in large and small ways.  From posting on Facebook to writing a column in a newspaper to changing an intake form to incorporate non-straight identities, these are strong people who have done their own work to not only “accept” that there loved one is LGBTQ but have gone out of their way to make the world safer for everyone.

So, to everyone who comes out today, to everyone who has been come out to, to allies who have helped make it possible, thank you.  It is through being  proudly non-heterosexual that we show the world that there is truly nothing to fear.

Some wonderful articles on coming out have run recently on coming out including the New York Times Magazine piece on coming out in middle school. The article is as much about the adults around them — parents, school counselors, teachers and LGBTQ youth advocates as it is about the students themselves.  Many of these allies were not prepared for youth to be coming out as early as 11.  Many struggled to overcome their own biases or still are.  The piece highlights the power of adults in the world of these youth.  The strict, anti-gay father or the principal who has failed to crack down on anti-gay bullying can cause significant hardship for these youth and their families.  Advocates in any relationship to young people — parents, a school nurse, a para at school or an aunt can be a life preserver for these youth.  Those who have someone to advocate for them are stronger, healthier, and more resilient.

You never know what 10 or 11-year-old is out there looking for someone who might “get it.”  Maybe you won’t even speak with them but just the sight of your rainbow sticker, HRC button, your PFLAG Mom hat, “Safe Space” Sign, or even you holding hand with a partner might alleviate a young person’s loneliness and depression. So, come out as LGBTQ or an ally.  Without realizing, your making the world that much safer.

–Jayme

http://queeryouthmentalhealth.wordpress.com

For more information, see HRC’s tools for “Conversations from the Heart” – how to start a conversation on National Coming Out Day for LGBTQ people and supporters.

Or, watch their video “Conversations from the Heart”

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