Parenting young gay men is not always easy. Between working through your own possible issues with his identity, and figuring out how to (and if to) tell the rest of the family, you still end up with concerns. All parents wish to keep their children safe, happy and healthy. Parents want their children to do more than survive, they want them to thrive. This article addresses this and the duty of all parents to provide a supportive, safe environment:
It seems that more gay teens are coming out than there were not too many years ago. Most gay guys are likely to wait until they are older, perhaps until after they have moved from home, started college or even a career, before they find the courage to share that important aspect of themselves with their family or (in some cases) even their friends. In fact, a large portion of gay men never come out to one of both of their parents, something that is frequently an issue of great
regret after a parent’s passing. A parent need not be enthusiastic about a child’s sexual orientation, whether gay or straight or somewhere in between. In fact, many of us would prefer to think of our children as totally non-sexual beings as long as possible. However, a parent does need to be supportive of a child in a number of important ways.
Read the rest at Home and Family.
And, for a beautiful, uplifting essay by a mom of a young gay man, see “My Perfect Gay Son“